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Is It A Communication Issue? Here's A Communication Course!
"How can it be sooo hard to talk about these issues?! Why can't they just get me?"
Well, it sounds simple enough, but we aren't taught how to communicate about feelings, values, and needs - no wonder we struggle to share about them when feeling vulnerable!
Are you ready to feel seen, heard, and appreciated again? How different would things be at home with more support and connection, and less resentment? Relationships are hard and no one teaches us how to manage them effectively. Once the butterflies wear off, and the differences surface, it can be hard to navigate! You can start noticing changes today already. The modules are short (I see you busy parents) but powerful. (PS. You can do this course on your own -even if you're partner doesn't want to)!
Ready for the magic back in your relationship? You don't even need your partner to participate in this course (but you might want him to).
Very few people grew up seeing how to have healthy disagreements, and work through difficulties in relationships. Not only were our emotions dismissed, but labelled as good or bad. No wonder we feel so uncomfortable with differences and arguments!
I am passionate about helping people feel confidently equipped with the tools to take their communication further, and help them feel seen, heard, and appreciated in the relationship. It's good for us - and the kids!
You can do this course on your own, or with your partner.
You can even do this course if you're single and want to learn better skills for when you're in a relationship again!
You can do this course, with instant access, at your own pace and in the comfort of your own home.
Each video tutorial is short and concise that you can implement immediately. Don't be fooled though, it might be short and simple but it has amazing impact.
Join our FB group to take the lessons further, connect with me and others, and keep growing.
There are many reasons for our arguments and situations that keep us stuck in our relationship. But over time, our lack of conversation or the intensity of the fights cause us to build a wall between us, making you feel like bad roommates instead of the lovers you once were. Throw children into the mix, and our different parenting styles, values, and sleep deprivation can make things even messier!
"Why? What can this course do for me?"
- You get to argue better. Yes, that's right, I don't plan on eradicating arguments - disagreeing is normal in any relationships (look at siblings)! But it's about learning how to disagree better. How you can have different opinions, needs, desires, and views while being respected and understood (and respecting and understanding your partner)!
- Support. Resentment is like acid that eats away at the insides before you notice the deep damage it's done. Learning to communicate allows you to get the support, empathy, and understanding you need to prevent resentment.
- Your children get to see how to communicate in any relationship better. You can teach them the skills you learn here!
- You get to be lucky in love. Communication is a skill and love is a verb. You get to follow these quick, simple yet very effective tools to create the love and intimacy you desire in your relationship. No longer believing others are the lucky ones, as you've taken it into your own hands and creating a love you can be proud of.
- Increased intimacy. As Esther Perel says, intimacy is "into-me-you-see". Communicating with love, respect and joy allows you to be more vulnerable with each other and share deeper. And on top of that, men typically view sex as a way to feel close and women usually need to feel closer to want sex. Increasing your conversations, feeling seen and heard, and enjoying each others' company can lead to deeper intimacy on many levels.
There are many other wonderful results possible from learning how to communicate better in your relationship. Do the course, and let me know what effect it's had for you! My e-mail is info@thecouplesconnection.com for when you're ready to add to this list!
This might be your first course on relationship communication, or maybe you've read many books. In my twenty years of working with families and ten years as a licensed couples counselor I have studied many many modalities and techniques and include here my TOP TOOLS to help you learn what is needed to communicate more effectively.
There have been so many approaches that sound great in theory but are too hard to implement. Or some that are shaming not helpful. And some are brilliant! I have taken what I have seen with my hundreds of couples what works to give you this course.
It's a introduction to what it takes to build INTIMACY beyond companionship and I can't wait to share it with you!
This is a short course packed full of wisdom, to give you a great set of tools to boost your confidence and get clarity and support to have those deeper conversations, or to help you learn to put an end to the arguments that keep going in circles and get you all worked up with no solutions each time.
This course is EASILY worth $97. But because of how badly I want more people to know about these skills (and unfortunately I have seen making things free means they're easily just signed in to but not used), I am offering this course for ONLY $17!
Course Overview
Over 5 Modules you will get insights into key strategies, via videos and worksheets, to get your relationship communication going deeper and being more effective so that you two can be on the same side again.
- Landmines to avoid in communication
- Nervous system regulation so that your conversations can go deep, and be sorted out as needed
- See how to go from drowning in complaints & resentment to being supported, and understood
- Step by step guide to difficult conversations
- A overlooked key to having difficult difficult conversations with greater success
Bonuses
Workbook
Printable PDF for you to take notes, journal on, and have access to your step-by-step guide.
FB group
Join our Facebook group where we can take the discussions further and have a community of support.
Guided meditation
Let me take you on a guided meditation where you get to escape your resentment and frustrations for a while and filter through what matters most for you in the relationship. It can light a flame that might have been long gone again.
" I am very impressed with Tehilla's comprehensive knowledge on the subject of couple's work. Her presentations are warm, empathic and enthusiastic. Her vast experience enables her to apply her knowledge. Thank you so much for a well worth training". D Hofmeyr, Counseling Psychologist
I just wanted to say we learnt SO MUCH and understand each other better now! Your course, the videos are such a great idea. The explanations were SUPER and the way you did the examples are very clear and understandable. We enjoyed it thoroughly and can really say we understand each other, and why we reacted in certain ways better and so we can now handle things in a better way.
I have great respect for Tehilla's wisdom, insights, research and the compassion with which she helps us to come to grips with many challenges that we as couples are grappling with on a daily basis. Thank you - well worth it!
FAQ
There are so many options out there, how do I know this is the one?
With two decades of working with families, and a decade in private practice, I have filtered through hundreds of approaches, to see what works best for my clients. Too many approaches sound great in theory but are really hard to implement in practice.
Do you offer refunds?
Due to the ridiculously low price of the course, I would say no. But if you do purchase the course and feel unhappy with it for any reason, do let me know. I am open to hearing why. I would be happy to refund for any genuine unhappiness. (Even though I doubt being disappointed in this would be possible :)
Will this course help all couples?
I share tools that anyone could benefit from understanding and implementing.
BUT Please note: In cases of abuse (domestic violence, alcohol dependency, etc) any online course is usually not sufficient to support that. I highly recommend rather in person support. Seek a professional near you to help you, you can contact your local doctor or hospital for resources.
Sometimes we need to remember to step out of the ROLE of wife / husband and into the RELATIONSHIP of wife / husband.
Happily ever after doesn't only belong to fairy tales.
BUT it doesn't just happen cause you met the right person. You two need to consciously continue to choose each other and work on not taking each other forgranted.
Divorce doesn't cause broken homes - it's the symptom of it.
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$17
Once off
- Key Aspects to Better Communication with your Partner
- Step-by-step video tutorials
- Instant Access
- 24-Hours for Refund if Unhappy
- A step-by-step PDF guide to having difficult conversation
- Do along workbook to integrate what you hear
By clicking buy now, you get immediate access to quick, easy to digest, very effective tools to turn your marriage around and get you confidently equipped to handle harder conversations.
Got questions? E-Mail me: info@thecouplesconnection.com I look forward to hearing from you.
Who is Tehilla Luttig?
Tehilla is a licensed mental health counselor (PRC0016837) and a certified transformational coach. She has 10 years of private practice experience working with hundreds of couples and individuals.
With a passion for studying and learning the top tools to help her clients with, she has studied under the best names and fine tuned the skills and tools necessary to help couples heal, de-esculate, and reconnect.
If you'd like to learn more about working with Tehilla, feel free to browse her website: www.thecouplesconnection.com
Tehilla Luttig
After nearly a decade in private practice, I have taken my top tools and insights to create courses to make therapy more accessible and to allow my clients to have the courses at their disposal to go through and go back to whenever it suits you!
Couples struggling with mental health or addiction, abuse, even affairs, should prioritize in-person therapy.
Courses can be life-changing, but please note this is not a substitute for therapy/counseling/coaching.
